If you're a first-time user, using a clitoral-sucking vibrator may feel different than using a regular vibrator, and you might need some guidance to make the most of it. Here are some tips on how to use a clit sucker vibrator for solo play or with a partner.
For Solo Play
Manufacturer’s Directions
Begin by reading the manufacturer's instructions to learn about the capabilities of your new vibrating clitoral suction device. Each suction vibrator is unique, with varying levels of intensity and pleasure-sucking heads.
Try Out the Functions First
It's a good idea to explore the different functions of your suction vibrator before using it directly on your clitoris. Take the time to familiarize yourself with the various buttons and settings. Some suction vibrators may not be as straightforward as others, so it could take some time to figure out how to use them properly. Additionally, some clitoral vibrators offer simple intensity levels, while others feature patterns and oscillations.
Test Them on Your Body
Once you are familiar with the different buttons and settings of your suction vibrator, experiment with using them on various parts of your body to gauge their intensity and sensations. You can try using the vibrator on the inside of your wrist to get a sense of its power level, and on the tip of your nose (which may cause you to sneeze!) to get an idea of how it might feel on your clitoris.
Positioning
Now that you have familiarized yourself with the different functions and settings of your suction vibrator by practicing on other parts of your body, and know how to adjust its intensity levels, you can begin using it directly on your clitoris.
1. To enhance the sensation, apply a good quality water-based lube to the rim and inside of the silicone nozzle of your suction vibrator. This can help to reduce any discomfort and provide a more pleasurable experience.
2. When using a clitoral suction toy, it's important to start with the lowest intensity setting first. These devices can become extremely intense very quickly, so starting with a lower setting can help to prevent any discomfort.
3. Next, position the silicone nozzle head of your suction vibrator to encircle the clitoris on all sides, ensuring that the sides of the nozzle do not directly contact your clitoris. Some clitoral suction toys come with two different-sized nozzles - small and medium/large - so be sure to choose the one that fits your body best. While some suction toys require a full seal around the clitoris, others can stimulate the body at a slight distance away.
4. Experiment with different positioning and angles until you find the sweet spot that works best for you. While some people enjoy direct stimulation on their clitoris, others may prefer the suction on one side or another. Take your time to explore what feels best for your body and adjust the position and angle of the nozzle accordingly.
Play with Intensity
Once you have found your sweet spot, you can gradually increase the air pressure intensity to enhance your pleasure. You may find that the first setting is enough to satisfy you, or you may want to slowly increase the intensity by turning it up a notch or two (or three). Keep in mind that some clitoral suction toys can have up to 12 levels of intensity, so take your time to work your way up and find the level that works best for you.
Rhythm
When you find the perfect intensity that brings you pleasure, stay with it and allow yourself to ride the waves of sensation to achieve climax. Keep in mind that everyone's experience with clitoral suction toys is different, and while some people may orgasm quickly, others may take more time to reach climax. Take your time and enjoy the sensations at a pace that feels comfortable and pleasurable for you.
Edging
You may also want to try edging with your clit sucker toy. This technique involves reaching the brink of orgasm, then reducing or removing the toy's intensity to prolong the experience. After scaling back your orgasm, you can increase the toy's intensity to return to the edge. By repeating this process several times, you can achieve incredibly intense full-body orgasms.
Try Them in the Bath or Shower
If you plan to use your clit sucker toy in the shower or bath, it's important to choose a waterproof vibrator to avoid damaging it when exposed to water. Be aware that "splashproof" does not necessarily mean "waterproof", so make sure to select a toy specifically designed to be used in water.
Try Them on Other Erogenous Zones
Although clitoral suckers are primarily designed for the clitoris, they can also be used on other erogenous zones such as the nipples. Because of their suction capabilities, they can provide a pleasurable nipple suction experience. So, feel free to experiment with using your clit sucker toy on other sensitive areas of your body.
For Solo Play
Clit-sucking vibrators can also be used in partner play, during P-in-V penetration, oral sex, and fingering.
During Penetration
Clit-sucking toys are ideal to use during penetration since their compact size allows them to fit snugly between two bodies, resulting in even more intense orgasms.
Discovering the ideal position that works best for both you and your partner is crucial.
Missionary works well, with the clitoris-owner positioning the vibrating clit sucker on their clitoris, then their partner’s body weight can hold it in place, or they can use one hand to keep it positioned correctly.
Doggie-style is also ideal, with the clitoris-owner reaching between their legs and holding it in place.
Find the best positions for clitoral stimulation during partner play.
During Oral Sex
Partners can also combine a clit-suction toy with oral sex.
To do this, position the clit sucker directly on the clitoris while the partner performing oral can utilize their tongue to pleasure the remainder of the vulva.
Check out our EROSZON Guide for some Amazing Oral Sex Techniques for more ideas!
During Fingering
Yes, you can even combine fingering with clitoral sucking vibrators as well to stimulate the G-spot area.
Place the clit-sucking device onto the clitoris, then the partner can insert their fingers 1-2 inches inside the vagina to stimulate the G-spot area. Utilizing a "come hither" motion is recommended for optimal G-spot pleasure.
